Quick question you need to ask yourself everyday – “is my partner’s shot at happiness more or less likely by my presence in their life”? Be honest, if the answer is no – don’t fret yet, you can turn the table albeit easier said than done.
Patience and understanding are two skills you have to learn. The golden rule some say is to always let your partner know how much you care, how much you love him or her. Don’t magnify his or her weaknesses, be quick to throw praise at his or her strength, praise and realistic encouragements are likely to draw your partner towards you rather than away, now that is the last thing you want.
Say a little prayer for him, doesn’t matter if you are not religious, surely you have heard about the power of positive declaration, offer her your heartfelt best wishes in your silent thoughts, pray together, talk about what you both want and make a declaration over them, prayers are simple words you say out loud, sometimes quietly, about what you want to happen, if you believe in a God, that’s fantastic, if you don’t then pray all the same, prayer is one of the tools of a successful and happy relationship. You know if you are not nice to your partner, all you have to do is turn a new leaf, make a difference in your partner’s life, if you don’t, someone else will.
